My Career Journey: A Resume Told Through Stories (Blog #15)

My Career Journey: A Resume Told Through Stories

When I was just ten years old, I found myself stepping into the world of work with the Ontario Teen Program (OTP). I walked door-to-door, selling chocolates, tea, peanut brittle, and various other items. I earned a dollar for each sale—a small amount, but at the time, it felt like a lot and it added up. This early venture into sales wasn’t just about the money; it was about the experience and the opportunity that would later shape my career. The OTP even took us on a trip to Disney World in Florida, where our boss kept track of our earnings to cover the cost of the trip. I was the last to sign up, but the first to pay it all off. They called me “Baby Face Ricky” because I was young and good at selling—traits that would serve me well throughout my career.

After my time with OTP, I moved on to Easttown Pizza, which had been voted the World’s Best Pizza in Vegas. I started as a dishwasher, but my drive and eagerness helped me quickly climb the ranks to pizza maker. From there, I transitioned to Outback Steakhouse as the “Blooming Onion Guy.” Yes, that was my official title! I spent my days creating those delicious, crispy onions, and went home smelling great after every shift. Over time, I worked my way up through the kitchen to assistant kitchen manager.

But I wasn’t done exploring my career options just yet. I wanted something different, something outside of the kitchen. So, I took a leap and landed a job at the London Hospital’s vivarium, where I worked with animals for medical testing. It was an unusual job, but it taught me the importance of responsibility, as I kept track of births, deaths, and took care of feeding and watering the animals, especially over weekends.

After some time, I felt the urge to return to the call center world. I got a job at Stream International, providing tech support for HP products. It was a solid job that paid well, so I stuck with it for a while. I then moved to Alliance iCommunications, where I sold TV and internet services for Bell Canada to small and medium-sized businesses through cold calling.

Eventually, I found myself returning to Outback Steakhouse once again, but this time on the front of house as a server. This became one of my all-time favorite jobs. I enjoyed the fast-paced, customer-facing environment, and it was a welcome change from the call center grind. However, I soon found myself bouncing back into the call center world at the Bradford Exchange, where I cold-called customers about collectible items, including baby dolls. I also worked at TD’s call center, activating Visa cards and trying to sell balance protection insurance. However, that job didn’t last long either—it just wasn’t the right fit for me.

The turning point came when I joined Bell Canada’s call center, where I worked selling phone and internet services to incoming customers. I spent a short amount of time there, but eventually, I got bored and made a major decision: I was going to move out west with a few friends. That decision led me to EDS, a company providing tech support for Bank of America employees. It was a different role, offering a change of scenery and a chance to expand my skill set.

My time at EDS and Bell Canada, with all the back-and-forth from Ontario to Alberta, helped me realize that I was ready for something more stable. I settled in Alberta and took a position with Long View Systems (LVS), a tech company, as a Logistics Coordinator—a fancy name for shipper/receiver. While the title wasn’t glamorous, it got my foot in the door, and over the next 12 years, I worked my way up, eventually leading the Cisco team. The company fostered growth, and I found myself constantly learning new things, developing both professionally and personally.

After leaving LVS, I took on a role at Softchoice as a Cisco Enterprise Agreement (EA) Sales Specialist. This job felt like the perfect fit. I loved the work, the company, and most importantly, the people. I thrived in the collaborative environment and the challenges it presented. Then, one day, a recruiter from another company reached out about an opportunity. After some initial conversations and interviews, I found myself embarking on another new chapter, this time leading the Cisco Enterprise Agreement Customer Success Manager team. I am still there to this day and it has been an amazing experience.

From walking door-to-door in the cold winters of Ontario to leading a remote team today, my journey has been nothing short of transformative. I look back with gratitude at each job, no matter how big or small, that helped me learn valuable skills, develop resilience, and understand the importance of persistence. I am where I am today because of the experiences, the people, and the lessons learned along the way.

Each role I’ve had has shaped me, and though my path has been far from linear, I wouldn’t change a thing. Every step, every challenge, and every leap of faith has led me to this point—and for that, I am thankful every single day.

The Life-Changing Question: What Would You Do Differently Today? (Blog #12)

If you woke up today, and in the blink of an eye, you had a near-death experience—be it a heart attack, an accident, or something life-altering—what would change for you? How would your priorities shift? Would you live differently, love more freely, or change your habits? Most people, when faced with such a moment, would immediately rethink their choices, their lifestyle, and their health. But here’s the big question: Why wait for that near-death moment to make those changes?

Today Could Be the Day

The reality is, today could be the day that something unexpected happens—something that changes the course of your life in an instant. It’s not meant to be a scare tactic; it’s simply the truth. Whether you experience a heart attack, an accident, or any number of other life-threatening situations, we often realize too late the things we should have been doing all along.

Yet, how often do we ignore the warning signs? How often do we put off health, lifestyle, and wellness changes because we believe there’s always a tomorrow? It’s a dangerous game we play with our lives when we continue to delay what we know we should be doing.

The Health Crisis We Can’t Afford to Ignore

Let’s face it—our nation is in a health crisis. From heart disease to diabetes, from obesity to mental health struggles, the statistics are staggering. The fact that chronic diseases are taking more lives than they should is not a reflection of bad luck. In many cases, it’s the result of years of unhealthy choices: poor diet, lack of exercise, stress, and neglect.

But here’s the key: these diseases don’t have to take us by surprise. Most health conditions that lead to heart attacks, strokes, and other life-threatening conditions are preventable. Yet we continue to ignore the steps we can take today to improve our future health. It’s not enough to wait for a wake-up call, because, by then, it might be too late.

What Would You Do If You Knew You Were Going to Die Tomorrow?

Imagine for a moment that you knew you only had one more day to live. What would you do differently? How would you treat your body, your mind, your relationships? Would you start eating better? Would you finally take that walk you’ve been putting off? Would you talk to your loved ones more openly?

Here’s the real kicker: we don’t have to wait for that “last day” to make meaningful changes. We have the opportunity to make those choices today—before we’re forced to face the harsh consequences of neglecting our well-being. If you can see the potential in changing your life, why not begin right now?

The Power of Now: Why Waiting Is the Real Danger

When it comes to our health, we often rationalize that there’s plenty of time to make changes. After all, we’re young (or not that old yet), or we don’t feel any immediate effects. But every day we delay is a day we’re putting ourselves at risk.

It’s easy to become complacent when things feel okay. But remember, a healthy lifestyle isn’t just about avoiding major medical events—it’s about giving yourself the best quality of life possible. We need to take action today—not because we’re scared, but because we deserve to live healthier, longer, and with more vitality.

What You Can Do Today

If you could be the healthiest, happiest version of yourself starting right now, would you do it? The truth is, you can. Here are a few simple steps to start living better today:

  1. Mind Your Food Choices: Nourish your body with whole, nutrient-dense foods. Cut back on processed foods, sugar, and empty calories. Every healthy choice compounds over time. This is a struggle for me, and I fight the good fight daily.
  2. Get Moving: Exercise isn’t just about weight loss. It’s about increasing your heart health, boosting your mood, and maintaining mobility. Aim for at least 30 minutes of activity, at least three times per week
  3. Prioritize Your Mental Health: Stress, anxiety, and burnout can take a massive toll on your physical health. Start practicing mindfulness, meditative breathing, or journaling to clear your mind and recharge.
  4. Sleep Well: Never underestimate the power of a good night’s sleep. Sleep is crucial for healing, hormone regulation, and overall well-being.
  5. Get Regular Checkups: You don’t need to wait for a crisis to see your doctor. Regular health screenings help catch problems early before they become unmanageable.

Live as If Today Is the Only Day You Have

If you knew you were going to die tomorrow, what would you have done differently yesterday? Would you have taken better care of yourself? Would you have spent more time with family? Would you have pursued your dreams instead of waiting for “the right time”?

Here’s the thing: you don’t need to wait for that moment of realization to make the changes that could save your life. The truth is, today is all we have. And it’s in your hands to take action now—before it’s too late.

The choices you make today determine the quality of your life tomorrow. Don’t wait for a health scare to push you into making changes. Choose to live healthily, fully, and intentionally right now. Your future self will thank you for it.

Take the First Step Today

If not now, when? If not you, who? Don’t let a near-death experience be the thing that wakes you up to the importance of living well. Start making small, consistent changes today. Your health, your happiness, and your longevity depend on it.

Live as if today is your opportunity to change, because, in a way, it is. Today is the day to save your life.

Embracing My True Self: The Journey to Authenticity (Blog #11)

It was a Thursday morning, 10 a.m., and the panic attack was starting to creep in, as it often did that week. The familiar tightness in my chest, the racing thoughts, the overwhelming sense of dread. This wasn’t the first time that week—far from it—but it still hit hard. I had learned by now that when this happened, I had to prepare, to somehow collect myself for the day ahead.

While I tried to steady my breathing, I found myself chatting with a friend, discussing the idea of taking the next week off work. The thought of stepping away to unwind and recharge seemed both essential and impossible. Could I really afford it, given the pressure of everything on my plate? My schedule was packed, and the idea of leaving so abruptly gnawed at me. But I also knew something had to give. I couldn’t keep going at this pace.

After talking things over with my wife and my friend, I spent some quiet moments reflecting. The decision to take the week off was not easy, but in that moment, I realized it was necessary. I had 27 meetings scheduled for the week ahead. Could I have just pushed through, kept the momentum going, and told myself it wasn’t so bad? Maybe. But if I didn’t step away, if I didn’t pause now, I feared I’d reach a breaking point I couldn’t come back from.

I needed to protect myself, to acknowledge my limits. So, with a deep breath, I decided to request the time off. There was a small sense of relief in making that choice, though doubt still lingered. Was this the right call? Was I just taking the easy way out?

But I knew it wasn’t about ease. It was about survival. It was about choosing to take care of myself before I got to a place where I couldn’t. And I had support—my boss, my teammates—they all had my back. When I told my boss, he said something that stuck with me: “Our team is firing on all cylinders right now. It’s a good time to take a break while things are running smoothly.” His words, simple as they were, felt like a lifeline.

Still, I wasn’t sure what to expect when I submitted my PTO request—less than 48 hours before the week began. It was unorthodox, but I was met with understanding. I wasn’t sure how it would all play out, but for the first time in a while, I felt like I was making a decision that was for me.

What did I do with a whole week off, with no plans in sight? I took the opportunity to rebuild, to give myself the space I needed to reset. I knew that if I didn’t actively make the most of this time, I might squander it—or worse, let it slip by without gaining anything from it. So, I decided to create a new routine, one that would help me rewire my brain and shift my focus in a few key areas.

I began with the simple decision to wake up at 5 a.m. every morning, giving myself a fresh start before the world began to pull at me. The first hour of my day became a sacred ritual—each part of it intentional, a step toward a better version of myself. I started with 20 minutes of exercise, just enough to get my body moving, to shake off the lingering effects of stress and fatigue. Then came 20 minutes of reflection and meditation, where I allowed myself to breathe, to check in with how I was feeling, and to find a moment of peace before the chaos of the day. Finally, I dedicated another 20 minutes to growth—whether reading a book, taking an online course, or learning something new that expanded my mind.

By the time that first hour was over, I felt ready to tackle anything. The physical movement, the stillness, and the learning created a solid foundation for the day ahead. I found myself starting work earlier, using the quiet of the morning to dive into projects I enjoyed—those I often didn’t have the time or energy for during a typical workweek. These early hours gave me the focus I craved and the space to align myself with the tasks ahead, helping me work with more intention and clarity.

It wasn’t just about productivity, though. It was about reconnecting with myself, creating a rhythm that nurtured my mind, body, and spirit. By the end of the week, I didn’t just have a clearer head—I felt a renewed sense of purpose and balance that had been missing for far too long.

This wasn’t just a break I needed because of burnout—this was something deeper, something different. It was a moment of reflection, a call to reconnect with myself in a way I hadn’t in a long time. If you find yourself struggling, I truly encourage you to take a step back, to carve out some you time, and to thoughtfully consider what you need to start feeling better.

It’s not always easy, and it’s not always obvious, but you have the power to turn things around. If I can do it, if I can take that step toward healing and clarity, then you absolutely can, too. There’s no perfect roadmap, but there’s a path forward—one that starts with making the decision to invest in yourself. Your well-being matters, and even when it feels daunting, taking that first step can be the catalyst for real change. Do it.

One Day, Boys. Day One. (Blog #9)

One Day, Boys. Day One.

One day, boys, I hope to make you proud of the man I will become. If not, the man I am today, then perhaps the man I will be tomorrow. I’ve spent a lot of time trying my best, living one day at a time. But I’ve come to realize that while we must live each day fully, true long-term success is built on a vision for the future. So, how can you truly succeed if you only focus on the here and now, without looking ahead? One day, boys. One day.

Day One.

But today is not just any day. Today is Day One.

Tomorrow is Day One.

Yesterday was Day One.

And every day you wake up, it will be Day One.

Remember that boys, when you lay your head on your pillow at night. Reflect on your day and ask yourself, “Was today a good day?” No matter the answer, guess what? You get to try again tomorrow because it’s Day One once more.

If your answer is “yes,” take a deep breath. Appreciate that you’ve done well, rest easy, and let your body rejuvenate for tomorrow. But if your answer is “no,” don’t get caught in the web of regret. Don’t stay up replaying the day in your mind, trying to figure out where you went wrong. That won’t help you move forward. Instead, go to sleep, reset, and let tomorrow be the opportunity to try again. Because it’s Day One.

You see, boys, each day is both a new beginning and a continuation of everything that came before it. Day One.

Is it the start of something new or the continuation of a lifelong thread of days?

In a way, it’s both. Every day is a chance to start fresh, but it’s also a chance to build on everything you’ve done so far. Even when it feels like you’re not getting anywhere, know that each “Day One” counts. Every small step you take, every little choice you make, is a stitch in the fabric of your life.

And yet, there’s something profound in this idea of Day One. Each day, you are given a blank slate, a chance to rewrite the story of who you are and who you will become. Every sunrise brings with it the promise of new beginnings, new challenges, and new triumphs.

But here’s the thing, boys: there will come a day when it’s your last Day One. You might not know when it will come, but one day, it will. The reality of that thought can seem heavy, but it doesn’t have to be a source of fear. Instead, let it be a call to action, to truly live each day as if it’s your last, to embrace every moment with intention, with gratitude, and with purpose.

Some might look at this perspective as a reminder of mortality, and yes, it is. But in truth, the idea that each day could be your last gives it a beautiful urgency. It transforms each “Day One” into an opportunity to live fully, to make the most of the time you have. It compels you to act, to seize the day with both hands and appreciate the gift of waking up again.

Day One, Boys.

Day One is not just a mantra. It’s a mindset. It’s about living with intention, always striving to be better, and understanding that perfection doesn’t exist, but progress does. So, if today wasn’t perfect, that’s okay. It’s just Day One. You’ll do better tomorrow. And the day after that. And the day after that.

Every day is Day One, and every Day One brings you closer to becoming the person you’re meant to be. So don’t wait for “one day” to start living the life you want. Start now.

One day, boys, I’ll look back and hope I made you proud. But until then, every day will be Day One. And that, in itself, is something beautiful.